17th November 2021
From a young age, Rachel was never afraid to ask the big questions in life, like: “Why’s the sky blue?”, “What are clouds?”, or perhaps the best of all, “Why were swear words invented if we can’t say them?”. But when Rachel asked her dad why her auntie had no hair, her parents thought long and hard about exactly how much to tell her.
And not too long after Rachel found the wig that had replaced the long, auburn hair that her auntie had had before, Rachel was told that she had been really ill with "something called cancer", that the doctors had tried really hard to make her better, but that sadly she was too unwell.
When Rachel was 17 her Grandma Maureen fell ill, fast. She hadn’t smoked for almost a decade, but the damage had already been done. Visiting Aberdeen’s Royal Infirmary for shortness of breath, Maureen wasn’t able to return home again until her final days, where she could be in the comfort of her own bed, surrounded by her family.
After 55 years of marriage, Rachel's Grandad, Malcolm, was left a widower and struggled to adapt to a life without his darling wife, Maureen. Having had a lovely bond from a young age, Rachel and her Grandad grew closer than ever when grieving the loss of Maureen, and caught up every week. But in September 2020, Malcolm found himself, like his wife, struggling to catch his breath. After a trip to the doctors, Malcolm was told he too had lung cancer - but this time an aggressive and incurable form of lung cancer called Mesothelioma.
"Between the type of cancer Grandad had, and the COVID-19 pandemic, there was no treatment option available for Grandad that would have given him any quality of life. Our only option was to care for him at home, opt for palliative care, and to get the fluid in his lungs drained as often as possible to keep him comfortable. The nurses were round so frequently they became an extension of the family.
"With the incredible support of my mum, aunts and uncles, Grandad pushed through his illness, and we were lucky to have 13 special months together after diagnosis, until he peacefully passed away on Friday 15th October 2021.
"I'm so grateful that Grandad's mind was still sharp until the very end; still able to do his puzzles, watch the news, and speak to his family before his body succumbed to the illness. He was still Grandad right until the very end, but at times it's hard not to think of what cancer has robbed us of. I would have loved to have danced with him at my wedding one day as we did at my sisters', or see him become a great-grandfather. He would have been the best."
In 2020, it is estimated that over 30,000 people worldwide were diagnosed with mesothelioma.
In 2020, it is estimated that over 26,000 people worldwide died from mesothelioma.
"Thanks to cancer research, Mum was treated for early-stage basal cell carcinoma (BCC) and Grandma Eilidh survived breast cancer not once, but twice!"
"To hear about the incredible progress being made by Worldwide Cancer Research researchers gave our family such a boost when we needed it most. It gave us hope that one day no family will have to go through what we - and so many other families across the world - have.
"Wishes aren’t enough to end cancer, but donations to Worldwide Cancer Research to start new cures are. Without funding discovery research, we won't get to see clinical trials or tests and treatments in hospitals saving lives. Devastatingly, it was too late for my auntie, Grandma Maureen, Grandad Malcolm, my great uncle, and my step-dad's mum whom I would have loved to have had the pleasure of meeting - but that doesn’t have to be the case for everyone else."
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In 2020, it was estimated that over 3,300 people in the UK were diagnosed with mesothelioma - a rare but deadly type of cancer that is mainly caused by exposure to the industrial chemical asbestos.
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